Some experts in the dating game for men will tell you that learning techniques and skills in seduction must be eventually "forgotten" and replaced with an attitude of nothing o prove.
Yet the truth of the matter is you do not "forget" the seduction techniques and skills that you learn but become a master of them on an unconscious level.
Most men start off not even knowing that they don't know how to attract women. This is called the level of unconscious incompetence.
Once you have become aware that you don't know how to attract women you have reached the level of conscious incompetence. Surprisingly this is where the majority of men choose to stay; it is also where you have chosen to learn how to attract women.
The next level of learning is conscious competence this is where you know what you have to do in order to attract women and are doing it, but sometimes you fall flat on your face right in front of the women. This is also where your reality begins to change as you become more aware of what you are doing.
The final level of course is unconscious competence at this level of attracting women becomes as easy as walking or talking. You might think that you have forgotten the techniques yet in reality they simply have become a part of who you are as a person.
When it comes to learning how to attract women the only real question is finding a product or coach that you know will teach you how to attract women. Once you have that knowledge and are willing to accept that in order to learn you are going to have to fail every once in a while your path to attracting women should be a bright one. |
