Are you entering the summer season single? Imagine a summer filled with light-hearted fun, flirting and meeting many new dating prospects. Sound enjoyable? You can easily make it happen. Take a break from the usual way you spend the summer and try a few new tactics to enhance your chance for summer romance.
Everyone regardless of age is at their friendliest and most open during the summer months. That’s why it’s so important to make the most of the season while it’s easiest to meet people. Here is a list of several simple things you can do whether you are 25 or 65 to spice up this June, July, and August:
Flirting Techniques
1) Don’t underestimate the power of a warm smile. So many people have forgotten this amazingly simple method that let’s others know you are friendly and approachable.
2) Make brief eye-contact. If you notice someone looking at you who has appeal, hold his gaze for just a second or two before gracefully turning your head. Making eye-contact and smiling are non-verbal signals to men that you are safe to approach.
3) If you have to, pretend you are having a good time. You are so much more attractive when you are enjoying yourself. People become curious about why you're having fun and are magnetically drawn to checking it out.
4) Dress up for a change! When you look good, you feel good. Ladies, play up your assets and put on something that makes you feel fabulous. Tastefully, show a bit of skin for greater allure.
Where to Go
1) Many towns have outdoor concerts in a band shell or park. It’s a casual evening with lawn chairs and picnics. Lots of groups are set up side by side which makes it easy to talk to the good-looking man or woman next to you.
2) Exercise outdoors in a park or local area where people tend to congregate. Lots of friendships and romances start this way, since you often see the same people who are in a regular routine. Warm up and cool down are the best times to flirt and strike up a conversation.
3) Enjoy a meal or beverage at one of the many restaurants with outdoor patios. Being outdoors literally provides an open atmosphere which makes connecting with new people far more comfortable.
4) Find a group with outdoor activities you like. There are singles sailing clubs, singles golf groups and many tennis clubs have singles round robins. The Appalachian Mountain Club and Sierra Club have local chapters that sponsor a variety of outdoor activities. Get active and you’ll meet new prospects who like to do the same things you do.
Regardless of whether your efforts lead to a date, flirting is fun! Connecting with new people enriches your life. When you expand your social circle with both men and women, it dramatically improves your chances of finding the “right one.”
Challenge yourself to see how many new people you can flirt with this summer. Put on a smile and get out there to find romance while the weather is warm and the people are too. |
