Getting a girl's phone number is usually something that most guys find difficult and nerve-wracking. But in most cases, if you've just met an attractive girl, you'll have to know how to get her number in order to date her (unless of course, in a one-night stand situation). So how do you pull this off as smoothly as possible without getting rejected by the girl? Well, here are three very simple techniques which will virtually guarantee you success nearly every time.
First of all, before doing any of this, you should already have had some rapport or built at least some sort of basic connection with the girl.
In using these methods or techniques, the key point is to realise that you're not to appear desperate to get her phone number. The correct attitude here is that if she does not give it to you, you've lost absolutely nothing. Look, there are at least three billion women on the planet and you do not need any particular one desperately. Out of every five women you interact with, you'll probably get two or three numbers, so the result of any one interaction is not that important and is no reflection on your level of skill in the game of seduction.
So here we go with the techniques: The first one is what I call the "direct phone" trick. What you simply do here is, you ask her to give you her phone for a second. Once you have it, enter your phone number into it and immediately ring YOUR phone with it. Obviously, this will not work if she's got no calling-credit on it. If that is the case you can turn that situation into one where you "tease" her about it. If she's got a good sense of humor, she'll laugh at herself. She'll find the whole thing so funny that she'll probably give you her number anyway.
The second technique is called the "business card" trick. You will need to have a pen and piece of paper handy for this little manoeuvre. This is how you do it: during the interaction, ask her if she's got a business card. Unless she's a professional woman who habitually carries around her cards, she'll say she hasn't got a business card. You then tease her and say something like "What, no business card? I was going to ask you out but now I'm not so sure you're not some sex-crazed serial killer who no one will be able to identify if I go missing one day." She'll probably crack up laughing at that. Or you can make up your own joke about a business card. So anyway, you hand her your paper and ask her to create one and impress you with her creativity. Of course she should write her phone number on this paper "business card."
The third but certainly not the least technique for getting phone numbers fast and easy is what I simply call the "I'll call you" method. Maybe you've discovered that she's also into dancing, or go-karting or I don't know rock climbing or something. You then say "hey, you know, you're pretty cool but I bet you can't be attractive AND good at climbing at the same time. I refuse to believe it." She'll probably say something like "Are you saying pretty girls can't climb?" So next you say "I'll be the judge of that, maybe you'll prove me wrong. We'll go climbing sometime. I've got to rush off now, but I'll call you." You turn away like you're leaving. Then at the last minute, you stop, spin back round and say, "hey, how do I reach you? Carrier pigeon? No, just kidding, gimme your number and I'll call you later."
Note that I didn't say "can I have your number?" that was done on purpose. You don't want to be ASKING for her number, you want to assume she'll want you to have it anyway. So there you go, 3 "killer" ways to get girls' phone numbers with a 90% chance of success. |
