Alpha men realize the importance of ��net working��, especially when you want to go places in life. That is the reason the Alpha man has innumerable contacts and has a circle of well placed friends and associates. He takes care to maintain a very ��social�� lifestyle. In your search for Ms. Perfect, don��t abandon the rest of the world. This throws you off balance, and may prove to be unproductive in the long run.
There is a saying; don��t forget the old in the glory of the new. Don��t give up on your old ties, your long friendships just because you are dating a woman who you find extremely fascinating. Very often men ignore their men friends for the sake of over-focusing on a particular woman. That��s not advisable. Here are a few reasons why you need to keep your ��old friends network�� alive: 1) For a more balanced approach in life. You will feel more active and rejuvenated with old ties. So will your sense of self-esteem take a leap.
2) To keep away from getting over-obsessed with one woman, some distractions and digressions are healthy for your psyche. It��s all about balance.
3) This will keep your woman interested in you for a longer time. Women love to see their men having a life of their own and their own circle of friends (male bonding).
4) You will be able to keep your doors and windows open. Meet other women through parties, get-togethers, etc.
5) It��s your true friends who see you in the right perspective. Their views and opinions are extremely beneficial for keeping you on the right track.
6) When going through a bad patch, you need the support and friendship of trusted friends.
7) Get an opportunity to live long and happy. Studies show that people with a healthy circle of friends live long than those with few friends. The moral of this short lesson is that when you start loving someone, don��t stop loving the rest of the world. We have all met people, who, once they are into a relationship, abandon all his old friends. He is not to be ��seen��. Then when he is saturated with this new found love, he bounces back, looking for those same old friends to spend time. And wonders, ��where has my entire friends gone, long time passing!�� Always remember this, you did not choose your family, you chose your friends. Family is always there, whereas friends are not. Family accepts you because there is no other way �C friends accept you because they wish to. There lies the difference. |
